HOW TO GET IN TOUCH WITH GIRLS IN THE CLUB IN KOREA! *\(0_ __0)/*
To be honest, I don't really go to the clubs in Amsterdam often, so all of the things I noticed about the clubs in Korea might also apply to Amsterdam clubs.
But this.. I'm pretty sure this is a typical Korean thing; grabbing a girl by her wrist.
It happened pretty often that my friend and I were just walking in the club, headed to the bar, the bathroom or maybe the stairs, and one of us suddenly got grabbed by some guy.
The first time it happened to me, we were headed to the bathroom and someone I hadn't met before grabbed me and told me 'Don't leave.' I did leave though.
My friend really did get pulled to a table one time, of course she'd dragged me with her.
For me, it was quite a funny thing to experience. Until now, I'd only seen this kind of things in tv-dramas.
The other thing that guys did the whole time, was just get behind a girl and try to dance with her.
this was a bit more uncomfortable for me. Just suddenly stopping with dancing and moving away a bit didn't always do the trick, so I had to really make it clear that I didn't really feel like dancing with them. My style is to turn around and tell them sorry, then walk away.
On our last clubnight in Gangnam, I sent away so many guys, at one point I was surprised they kept coming; hadn't they seen me sending away all those boys before them?
I didn't really pay much attention to how the other people on the dance floor ended up together but I've been told that in Korean clubs, guys are often pushy like that. I didn't notice a lot of upset or distressed girls so I assume they don't mind too much.
I might make another post about how we got approached in the clubs, but I think those times weren't that typical Korean. I have made most of the illustrations already though, so why not?
Of course, it could be that I made some wrong assumptions. If so, please leave a comment! or if you have any relevant stories, please comment. (really, I never get comments, please give me some!)
When I was in Korea, I didn't go to clubs. But I heard of some friends that the guys in Korea can be really nasty! they grab a girls boobs, and ass >_> I think that was in Ittaewon?.. if that would happen to me, I would kick them in the baaalls!
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